对失恋自己说的话

《对失恋朋友不该说的话》
对失恋自己说的话 第一篇

对失恋朋友不该说的话 Don't say: "You were too good for him."

不要说"You were too good for him."（他配不上你。）

Why: You are basically saying she has bad taste. And you'll be embarrassed if they ever patch it up.

因为这样说的话你本质上是指她的品味太差，而且万一他们言归于好了你岂不是很尴尬？ Instead say: "His loss!" It gets the same point across without disparaging her judgment.

可以说"His loss!"（那是他的损失！）这样既没有贬低她的判断能力，又达到了同样的效果。 Don't say: "I'm glad you got rid of him. I never liked him anyway."

不要说"I'm glad you got rid of him. I never liked him anyway."（我真高兴你甩了他。我从来就没喜欢过他。）

Why: She'll wonder about your fake adoration for him while they were together. 那样她会怀疑，他俩还在一起的时候你不过是假惺惺地称赞她男友。

Instead say: "I'm confident you'll find someone who will give you exactly what you want." It focuses on what's to come, not on the dud you're glad she's done with. 可以说"I'm confident you'll find someone who will give you exactly what you want."（我相信你会找到称心如意之人的。）这话着重于将来会如何，而不是那段失意的过去。 Don't say: "How could someone as perfect as you still be single?"

不要说"How could someone as perfect as you still be single?"（像你这样十全十美的

人，怎么还会是单身呢？）

Why: A statement like this comes off as a backhanded compliment. What she hears is "What's wrong with you?"

这感觉像是句讽刺挖苦的恭维话，在她听来你是问"What's wrong with you?"（你哪里不对劲？）

Instead say: "Seeing anyone?" If she's tight-lipped about her love life, move on to other topics.

可以说"Seeing anyone?"（有没有约会啊？）如果她对自己的恋爱问题守口如瓶，那就转移话题吧。（via：21st century）

《不该对失恋或单身朋友说的话》
对失恋自己说的话 第二篇

不该对失恋或单身朋友说的话

Don't say: "You were too good for him."

Why: You are basically saying she has bad taste. And you'll be embarrassed if they ever patch it up.

Instead say: "His loss!" It gets the same point across without disparaging her judgment.

不要说"You were too good for him."（他配不上你。）因为这样说的话你本质上是指她的品味太差，而且万一他们言归于好了你岂不是很尴尬？可以说"His loss!"（那是他的损失！）这样既没有贬低她的判断能力，又达到了同样的效果。 Don't say: "I'm glad you got rid of him. I never liked him anyway." Why: She'll wonder about your fake adoration for him while they were together.

Instead say: "I'm confident you'll find someone who will give you exactly what you want." It focuses on what's to come, not on the dud you're glad she's done with.

不要说"I'm glad you got rid of him. I never liked him anyway."（我真高兴你甩了他。我从来就没喜欢过他。）那样她会怀疑，他俩还在一起的时候你不过是假惺惺地称赞她男友。可以说"I'm confident you'll find someone who will give you exactly what you want."（我相信你会找到称心如意之人的。）这话着重于将来会如何，而不是那段失意的过去。

Don't say: "How could someone as perfect as you still be single?"【对失恋自己说的话】

Why: A statement like this comes off as a backhanded compliment. What she hears is "What's wrong with you?"【对失恋自己说的话】

Instead say: "Seeing anyone?" If she's tight-lipped about her love life, move on to other topics.

不要说"How could someone as perfect as you still be single?"（像你这样十全十美的人，怎么还会是单身呢？）这感觉像是句讽刺挖苦的恭维话，在她听来你是问"What's wrong with you?"（你哪里不对劲？）可以说"Seeing anyone?"（有没有约会啊？）如果她对自己的恋爱问题守口如瓶，那就转移话题吧。

《不该对失恋或单身朋友说的话》
对失恋自己说的话 第三篇【对失恋自己说的话】

不该对失恋或单身朋友说的话

Don't say: "You were too good for him."

Why: You are basically saying she has bad taste. And you'll be embarrassed if they ever patch it up.

Instead say: "His loss!" It gets the same point across without disparaging her judgment.

不要说"You were too good for him."（他配不上你。）因为这样说的话你本质上是指她的品味太差，而且万一他们言归于好了你岂不是很尴尬？可以说"His loss!"（那是他的损失！）这样既没有贬低她的判断能力，又达到了同样的效果。 Don't say: "I'm glad you got rid of him. I never liked him anyway." Why: She'll wonder about your fake adoration for him while they were together.

Instead say: "I'm confident you'll find someone who will give you exactly what you want." It focuses on what's to come, not on the dud you're glad she's done with.

不要说"I'm glad you got rid of him. I never liked him anyway."（我真高兴你甩了他。我从来就没喜欢过他。）那样她会怀疑，他俩还在一起的时候你不过是假惺惺地称赞她男友。可以说"I'm confident you'll find someone who will give you exactly what you want."（我相信你会找到称心如意之人的。）这话着重于将来会如何，而不是那段失意的过去。

Don't say: "How could someone as perfect as you still be single?"

Why: A statement like this comes off as a backhanded compliment. What she hears is "What's wrong with you?"

Instead say: "Seeing anyone?" If she's tight-lipped about her love life, move on to other topics.

不要说"How could someone as perfect as you still be single?"（像你这样十全十美的人，怎么还会是单身呢？）这感觉像是句讽刺挖苦的恭维话，在她听来你是问"What's wrong with you?"（你哪里不对劲？）可以说"Seeing anyone?"（有没有约会啊？）如果她对自己的恋爱问题守口如瓶，那就转移话题吧。

《描写失恋的语句》
对失恋自己说的话 第四篇

1、戒爱像戒毒，必须半年完全无交集，电话qq拉黑，不聊天，不见面，说一句话就算复吸，得从头开始。

2、心痛心累是必然的，想要不痛就只能开始下一段感情。

3、对新感情无法投入还想着旧爱也是正常的，慢慢把重心换到新感情上来就好。

4、初恋会记挂很久，不被控制就好。描写失恋的语句。

5、天冷了，爱淡了，梦远了，也会再爱你了。

6、我累了，为了爱，那么痴情。

7、累了，8、愿意不爱你，只要你幸福。

9、不想自私，说不爱的那一刻。

10、当你说爱上他的那一刻，我已经不爱你了。

11、自从分手后，我喜欢上了寂寞。描写失恋的语句。

12、长大让我们学会得不是越来越懂得珍惜而是越来越懂得放弃。

13、无名指再怎么坚持也支撑不起一枚戒指的分量。

14、如果爱你是我自己活该我会亲手将自己掩埋。

15、太阳看不到颜色，整个世界是灰色的。

16、风停了，雨止了，情断了，爱死了。

17、你的心飞了，我的心死了!

18、你是这个秋天里最后一丝游离的秋风，而我恰是这秋天里随风飘落的最后一片枫叶!

19、快乐，就在想起你的瞬间；痛苦，只为你那一皱眉。可是，当你决绝的那一霎那，我的世界也崩塌了。所有的幻想和期待，都化作烟云了。我还能做什么，我只有祝福你再见了，我的爱!

20、分手后，不可以做朋友，因为彼此伤害过；不可以做敌人，因为彼此深爱过，所以我们变成了最熟悉的陌生人。

21、也许某天，在喧闹的城市中，你我擦肩而过。我会停住脚步，()凝望远去的背影，告诉自己:那个人我曾经爱过!

22、失恋并不可怕，可怕的是你抓着回忆不放。

23、有些人只是你人生中的一段小插曲，他的出现只是为了让你学会成长，更懂得珍惜。

24、他离开你是他的损失，因为你值得拥有更好的!

25、也许一生要共同走过，分享一切，也许命中注定要分离，每个人有自己的活法。

26、上一次微笑着入睡是什么时候?

27、总把曾经说情话，何必日出绝日落。

28、一场恋爱旅行，在途中便知道它的结果是什么了，怎么走下去?华丽开始，最后会怎么样呢?我的出现只为陪你度过空虚的时光，我又会陪着你把我慢慢忘记，只为减轻你的痛苦。

29、原来得到后再失去，竟会让让我想静静的沉入爱情湖，从此便如此消失于世俗。

30、他的心早已变换了季节，而你还站在他许下诺言的那一天!

31、你是我猜不到的不知所措，我是你想不到的无关痛痒!

32、我放下了尊严，放下了个性，放下了固执，都只是因为放不下你!

33、无法拒绝的是开始，无法抗拒的是结束。

34、我赢了所有人，但却输掉了你。