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Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, they serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are and who you want to become.

有些人，在进入你的生命的那一刻，你能即刻知道他（她）存在的意义：因为某种原因他才会出现，并且他能够让你知道你是谁，需要什么。

You never know who these people may be: your neighbor, child, long lost friend, lover, or even a complete stranger who, when you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.

你永远不会了解谁会成为这样的人：也许是邻居、子女、分别已久的老友，更有甚者，一个完完全全的陌生人；在你们的目光互相锁定的那一刻，你们就会知道：这将会是宿命里能够影响你今后一生的那个人。

And sometimes things happen to you and at the time they seem painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential strength, will power, or heart.

痛苦，非公正，还有不幸，时时都会都可能来临，但从另一面来看，唯有超越了这些苦难，你才能体会到自己所拥有的坚韧潜力、意志力，以及坚定的信仰。

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.

万事皆有因，幸与不幸也非偶然。疾病伤痛，爱恨苦难，都是对灵魂的试练。

Without these small tests, whether they be events, illnesses or relationships, life would be like a smoothly paved straight flat road to nowhere, safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless.

没有这些试练的生活，就像不知前方通往何处的平坦大道，安全又舒适，但却了然无趣。

The people you meet who affect your life and the successes and downfalls you experience create who you are, and even the bad experiences can be learned from, In fact, they are probably the poignant and important ones.

无论好还是坏， 你生命中所遇到的形形色色的人，还有那些起起落落，造就了真正的你。即便是那些痛苦的经历，也是你成长中值得借鉴的经验，很重要的经验。

If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart...

原谅那些伤害你、背叛你、让你伤心的人，因为正是他们帮助你明白了什么是真正的信任，让你懂得了在该向什么人敞开心扉。

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